Dear Pastor,

I have been in a relationship with a guy for almost a year. I became pregnant by him before I returned home to the States. When I first told him the news, he was excited. Now, he is shutting me out. He is not answering my calls. He is like a brick wall.

What should I do?

Confused., New York, USA

Dear Confused,

It seems as if this guy is hiding. I wonder why? Could it be that he doesn't believe that you are carrying his child? Could it also be that he has another girlfriend in Jamaica and he doesn't want her to know that he got you pregnant? I don know what is the reason, but I would like to encourage you to keep strong. If you know any one in Jamaica who knows him and you can reach him/her ask him/her to speak to him on your behalf.

Pastor