Dear Pastor,

I am a 19-year-old male living in America. I left Jamaica nine months ago and I have a girlfriend there. My problem is that I also have a girlfriend who is living in America. She is also from Jamaica. I love both of them, but they always seem to be getting into arguments over who is the wife and who is the 'bread knife'.

The one in Jamaica is supposed to be coming to America in a few months and we made big plans. I don't know what to do because both of them want to have my baby. I'm so confused. Pastor, please help me.

A. M., New York, USA

Dear A. M.,

All you are doing is bragging. You don't have to be tangled up with two women. You can't love these two women equally. So why fool yourself. You love one more than the other, so stick with the one you love more. If you are going to do well financially and make progress in life, then you have to learn to have one woman.

Men who run around with a lot of women are generally not as successful as men with stable relationships. And most men who run around suffer when they get old because nobody cares about them. They don't have enough money to take care of themselves because they have wasted it all on women. So, brother, do what is right and stop fooling yourself. Re-member you can't finish women.

Pastor