Out of Africa
Dear Pastor, I have been dating an African man and we have a son together. The problem is that he wants me to change too much. He is always insecure about the places I go and the things that I wear. He tries to control my every move.

... good soup
Dear Pastor, I've been dating a guy for almost a year now and I realise that I can't trust him. I want to be with him but the trust issue is affecting our relationship a lot. It's been very hard for me to trust him.

Have I got HIV?
Dear Pastor, I was involved in a sexual relationship with a woman. It is now rumoured in the community that she has AIDS. On one occasion the condom broke while we were having sex. I immediately pulled out and placed a new one on.