Dear Pastor,

I'm a 19-year-old male student and I've noticed that I am having strong feelings for men. The first time I felt these feelings was when I was 15 years old. At that time I was scared and had no one to talk to but now I've noticed its becoming a bit of a problem.

I'm still a virgin and I'm scared that this problem will distract my education. Please give me your fatherly advice.

W.T., London, England

Dear W.T.,

I would urge you to see a Christian psychologist as soon as possible. He/she would be able to help you. Do so early.

Pastor