Dear Pastor,

My girlfriend and I have been together for five years. Anyway, for the past few days I have recognise that her attitude has changed. Do you think she might be cheating or seeing someone else?

M. B., West Virginia, U.S.A.

Dear M. B.,

I do not know why your girlfriend's attitude has changed. Why don't you ask her? Too many guys seem to believe that if women are not responding to you at every beck and call, they are seeing other men. How silly. Even when a girl is going through her cycle and is not very pleasant, she is accused of seeing another man. You guys need to grow up and learn how to communicate with women. Sometimes a woman simply needs space.

Pastor