Dear Pastor,

I am a 13-year-old girl and I am madly in love with my uncle. He makes me feel so special. He gives me expensive gifts, lots of money and wonderful sex. He makes feel like how a woman should.

Whenever I see him, he makes me hot all over. I feel nervous, my head becomes light and my nipples just rise to the occasion whenever I see him.

Pastor, I don't know what to do because I am deeply in love with him.

T. R., Nassau, Bahamas

Dear T. R.,

This is despicable. Your uncle is having sex with you! He should be sentenced to prison. How disgraceful. He knows that you are his victim. He has got you to love him but what he does not realise is that the time is going to come when you are going to hate him. He is nothing but a beast. And poor you, the illicit relationship is affecting you.

My dear, you have to report your uncle to your parents. What both of you are doing is wrong. It is not good for you emotionally, psychologically and physically. It is going to affect you in the future. This is incest and incest is condemned in the Bible and it is against the law.

I believe that I am under a moral obligation to report your uncle. If you don't report him, then I believe I should, no fooling. I am serious. Stop taking money and gifts from him. He is giving you things because he wants to have sex with you at anytime and to keep you from exposing him. Don't go near to him and don't be alone with him at anytime. If you can't talk to your parents about this problem, talk to a relative or the guidance counsellor at your school, or the police. Let me hear from you again soon.

Pastor