Dear Pastor,

I am married to a Jamaican and I love him to bits. The problem is that I think he is cheating on me. I told him that it would be best for us to talk about this so that we can either work on the marriage or go our separate ways and be happy.

I need help on what to do. Can you help me, pastor?

T. B., London, England

Dear T. B.,

What proof do you have that this man is cheating? You have not said why you believe he is cheating. So I repeat, what proof do you have? If you don't have any proof, keep quiet and don't harass the man. He cannot admit to doing something he may not be doing.

Pastor