Dear Pastor,

I am in the United States of America, but there is a big problem with my boyfriend and me. I am here trying to get good grades in school and my boyfriend is cheating on me in Jamaica with his ex-girlfriend, which is not right. That is the guy I want to spend my life with and he is making a fool of me. I want to be the one who will have his children and the one he will marry. But it does not seem as if it is going to work between us. He is lying. I am going to forgive him but I am going on with my life. Keep up the good work and be strong

S.B.,

Dear S.B.,

I believe that you should try and put this man behind you. Focus on your school work. You can't go wrong in doing so. When people tell you negative things about him, tell them you prefer not to hear. College work can be difficult, so don't allow this man's behaviour to cloud your mind and cause you to fail your exams. Keep strong.

Pastor