Dear Pastor,

I am a young girl. I was raised by a Christian family in Jamaica but since I came to live in the States, I have 'run loose'. I was taught to keep my virginity till marriage but I have been with my boyfriend for a while now and I feel like he deserves me.

He does not pressure me to have sex with him. He says whenever the time is right we can do it. What should I do?

K.K., New York, U.S.A.

Dear K.K.,

Continue to be a good girl and wait until you get married before you have sex. It would be a wonderful gift to give to your husband.

Pastor