Dear Pastor,

I was sexually abused and it took me almost 26 years to get over it. I would not want anyone who has suffered this same fate to suffer as long as I did. I never thought that I could be at peace. I kept this as a secret for a long time and it hurt even more.

I gave my life to the Lord and I asked the Lord to forgive the man who had raped me. I also asked the Lord to help me to forgive him. I couldn't carry that burden any longer. I realised that by keeping it as a secret, I was only hurting myself more. I will not tell you that I do not remember what I went through, but I can tell you that since I forgave him it does not hurt anymore whenever I remember the incident. As a matter of a fact, I feel sorry for him now. Some people may think that I am crazy for saying this but for persons who have been raped, until you have given your life to the Lord and forgiven the man who has raped you, you will never experience real peace. Vengeance is mine says the Lord. And I believe that the peace I am having is my justice.

J.C., Mississippi, USA

Dear J.C.,

I appreciate your letter and I am happy to know that you are enjoying the goodness of the Lord. May God continue to bless you and may others be encouraged by your good testimony.

Pastor.