Dear Pastor,

I am a 17-year-old girl who really needs your advice. There are two cousins who are madly in love with me and I don't know what to do. I don't know which one I like more. I have never had sex with any of them, but I have kissed them both. 'D' said that he liked me first, but I think I like 'E' more, however, I don't want 'D' to get hurt.

Please tell me what to do.

S, St. Catherine, Jamaica

Dear S,

It seems to me that you are going to give 'E' the nod. So I suggest that you tell 'D' that both of you can only be social friends. It is unwise for any girl to have two intimate boyfriends. Let these boys know where you stand before both of them start to have physical fights over you.

Pastor