Dear Pastor,

I am writing you because I have a problem with sex. My woman and I are always fussing over it. When I want it she doesn't give it to me, so whenever she wants it, I don't give it to her. What should I do, give it to her?

M.L., Bronx, New York

Dear M.L.,

Both of you sound like jokers to me. You both have issues that should be resolved with professional help. Make an appointment to see a counsellor. If both of you are married, you should not punish each other by withholding sex. That is what the Bible says.

Pastor.