Dear Pastor,

I am very confused. I am in love with a guy, but I keep cheating on him. The problem is that he doesn't take care of me the way he should. He wants to get married, but I don't know what our future would be like together which is why I am hesitant.

S.W., Norwood, St. James

Dear S.W.,

What I think you are trying to say is that you are cheating on this man because you have financial needs and he is not meeting these needs. By cheating with other men your financial needs are met. To be very frank with you, you shouldn't marry this man because if you do you will continue to cheat on him because his pocket is weak. He is not in a position to support you and you want much more than he can give. If you were to marry this man, the marriage will not last. So save yourself much distress. Tell this man that you are not ready to be married. And please, find yourself a job, so that you will not be tempted to sell your body.

Pastor.