Dear Pastor,

I have been living in England for the past five years. I am very unhappy. My husband has a British girlfriend. He spends more time at her house than he does at mine.

All he wants me to do is to cook, wash and clean because he is unable to do these things.

I am now pregnant with our third child and he does not care. I have just found out that his outside woman is also pregnant. I cannot take it any longer. Please tell me what to do, as sometimes it is really stressing. Please help me.

N.J., Tottenham

Dear N.J.,

Try and remain calm during your pregnancy. But after you have given birth deal with the matter. Your husband does not care. He wants to have two women at the same time and two families as well. He is a silly fellow. He must be making a lot of money to have two women pregnant.

If he continues with his British girlfriend, you should seek the advice of a lawyer. Please, I beg you do not lower your standard by attacking this girlfriend. Deal with him only.

Pastor