Dear Pastor,

I am pregnant but I am not sure who is the father. I thought it was for my husband, but when they did the ultrasound it is showing that it is impossible for him to be the father.

Pastor, I don't know what to do, because I didn't want to have an abortion; but right now it is my only choice. Please tell me what to do?

E.W.,

Dear E.W.,

Please have your baby and face the consequence after. Your husband may forgive you for your infidelity.

But if he doesn't, you would not carry the guilt of having an abortion. Your big problem is that you do not know which of the men could have impregnated you.

You seem to have had unprotected sex with more than one man apart from your husband. You have been living carelessly.

If your husband does not want to continue the relationship, go in peace and start life all over again.

If he decides to stay with you, both of you should decide to go for counselling and thank Almighty God that your marriage has been saved. I wish you well.

Pastor