DEAR PASTOR,
I have a problem. I am 16 years old and I was sexually active with a 22-year-old guy. I've stopped having sex with him and now he's saying that I don't love him because I have stopped sleeping with him.
What should I do?
R. F., St. Catherine, Jamaica
Dear R. F.,
A 16-year-old girl does not have to have sex. What all 16-year- olds should be doing is learning to socialise with everybody, studying hard and planning for the future.
Tell this 22-year-old young man that you have made a mistake by having sex with him and you are not going to continue regardless of what he says.
Pastor
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