DEAR PASTOR,
I'm a 20-year-old male living in New York. My problem is that I have a girlfriend whom I love to death, but I can't trust her even though I know she is not doing anything wrong.
She told me that she is a virgin and I believe her. She told me that I am her first love. The reason for me not trusting her is not because of anything she has done, but because I trusted someone once and I got my heart broken.
K. S., New York, USA
Dear K.S.,
You don't truly love this girl. If you did, you would learn to trust her. No relationship can succeed without trust. Don't use your ex's 'fat to fry'/ this girl.
By your action, you are giving the impression that all women are cheaters and cannot be trusted.
Pastor
If you take that position, you should never get involve in any relationship at all.
Pastor
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