Dear Pastor,
I am currently living in the United Kingdom. I have been married to a lovely woman for about two to three years. I fell in love with this woman and I must say there are just pure feelings of love involved. We have a really good relationship. We are great lovers, friends and she is the best person to talk to.
The problem is she is 20 years older than I and she cannot have kids. Within the next two years, I'll be 30 and I want to have kids. I have suggested the idea of me having kids and she is not happy. I need to find out what to do to let her know how much this means to me.
My parents are currently unhappy about the situation. I really love this lady. I never ever looked at the issue of age even though we have discussed it and decided to deal with it. I really need to know what my option for a solution is. I have always wished she was younger and could have kids, however, she cannot and at this point in time. I will be willing to father a child.
Please give me your advice and continue your brilliant work. I read your article every week.
B.T., England
Dear B. T.,
I suggest that your wife and you seriously consider adopting a baby. You speak highly of your wife and you love her very much. It is a pity that you did not consider her inability to have children before you married her.
Pastor
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