Dear Pastor,
I'm having some problems. I would like your help. I'm 19 years old. I have been living in Florida for 2 years. When I was in high school in Jamaica, I dated a guy for 7 years, but because I migrated, I can't be with him anymore. I'm in love with another guy who is my boyfriend here in America. We have been dating for two years. I don't know what to do because I am still in love with the guy in Jamaica.
I still think about him and call him too. He still loves me and all this is getting to my head. I don't know what to do now because he is telling me that he wants me to have his baby. And hearing that from him is driving me crazy. I told him that I have a boyfriend but he doesn't care. I'm making plans to visit Jamaica, but now he is telling me that I don't want to come. I want to get him off my mind, but it's hard to do so. I guess you can say that I'm still in love with him too.
Please tell me what to do because I love the man in America and I don't want to hurt his feelings and destroy what we have together.
T. R., Florida, U.S.A.
Dear T. R.,
You love one of these men more than the other. Go for the one you love more and the one you know will respect and take care of you. End the relationship after you have made up your mind on the one you would like to marry. Don't call him or accept anything from him. Don't try to fool any of these men; you will get hurt.
Pastor
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