Dear Pastor,
I am a nineteen year old girl living in New York. I am also in love with a forty four year old married man. He treats me very well. One day I found out that he has a secret life, he is a bisexual. At first there were rumours but I didn't believe them until last week Friday. I was going to surprise him at his home because his wife was on a business trip and it was his day off.
When I approached the house I started to hear sexual noises. So I knocked on the door and his partner opened the door and asked, "Can I help you?" I asked for my boyfriend and the man replied, "Are you talking about my man?" I was so shocked. The only thing I could say was "Who are you?" He said, "I'm his male lover, bitch!" I got upset and left.
I am asking for your fatherly advice because I am still in love with this man.
D. P., New York, USA
Dear D. P.,
I wonder what your bisexual boyfriend told you. Whatever he said to you or might not have said, I would urge you to end the relationship with him. Keep far from this man. You should not have gotten involved with him in the first place but people make mistakes. He is married, he is bisexual and you have proof of his lifestyle. Walk away from this man.
Pastor
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