Dear Pastor,
I am having a problem with my man. He is 36 and I am 19 years old. We have been in a relationship since May 2005 and until now, we haven't had sex. He says he is not rushing me into having sex with him because he says he loves me and he will do anything for me. He cares for me and he is proving it to me so far.
He is now ready to have sex but I have been taking some birth control pills for the first time since May and I am still bleeding and he is cursing me out and saying that he is fed up of waiting.
I don't know what to do. I love him very much and I don't want to lose him.
K. G.,
London, England
Dear K. G.,
This guy has played the game very well. He got you to love him so much that you are now concerned that if you don't have sex with him, he would go. If this man doesn't have sex with you he wouldn't die. And may I remind you, that it is not wise for you to have sex with this man without a condom. I am not encouraging you to have sex but if you are determined to have sex, a condom should be used. The condom is still the safest way to protect yourself, not only from pregnancy but also from diseases.
Pastor
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