DEAR PASTOR,
I am a 26-year-old female who is in love with a married man. He tells me daily that he is going to leave his wife, but it has been months now and nothing is happening. I love him and can't stand not being in his arms constantly. I tried to leave but he convinced me not to. I am now wondering if he will ever leave his wife.
M. J., St. Catherine, Jamaica
Dear M. J.,
Why should he leave his wife? What has she done him? Some men tell women what they want them to hear. Could it be that he has been telling you things to cause you to believe that he loves you more than his wife and to make you feel that it would not be long before he gets a divorce and marry you? You are becoming impatient now because nothing is happening. Perhaps he may never leave his wife and you may have to remain his "sweetheart" as long as you wish to be.
Don't believe everything a man says. Some men would lie and cry to get what he wants from a woman.
Pastor
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