Dear Pastor,
I have been seeing a guy that is way older than I, but I think I am in love with him. Should I leave him before it gets too serious?
V.J., Bronx, New York
Dear V.J.,
Too bad you did not mention your age and his age. If you had, it would have enabled me to answer your letter intelligently.
Nevertheless, I will venture to say that why would you want to end the relationship with a man you genuinely love although he may be much older than you?
I hope I am not putting my foot in my mouth. Do you mean this man is a 'sugar daddy'? Even if he is old and feeble and can manage and you love him, so what?
It is really up to do. "Nobody's business but your own."
Pastor
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