Dear Pastor,
I am from the United States. I visited Jamaica a couple of years ago, where I met a police officer. At first he was very nice and I thought he was different from the other guys I have met in Jamaica. What I realised was that he is a user and wants me to support him.
Negative things
He gets very upset if I don't give him what he wants. I found out a lot of negative things about him from people that were around him. I think he was just using me to gain entrance to the United States.
He even had a relationship in Jamaica that I didn't know about because he told me the relationship was over.
Do you think that I should still be friendly with this person or should I stop the phone calls completely?
V.W.,
Bronx, New York
Dear V.W.,
If you believe that this man is a user, deceiver and a liar, why do you continue to consider him as your intimate friend? You have doubts about him, so tell him and move on with your life.
Pastor