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Married woman's urge

Dear Pastor,

I am married and I want to have sex with another man. I am having problems with my husband. He treats my son badly and he does not give me anything. I feel that I can do better without him, but I don't want to leave him. The other man treats me very well and he makes me feel loved.

Please tell me what to do.

S. B., U.S.A

Dear S.B.,

I cannot encourage you to become sexually involved with anybody apart from your husband. If your husband is treating you badly, why have you not sought professional help? Is it security he gives to you why you have stayed with him? Having sex with another man will not solve all your problems. It may create more problems for you.

I suggest therefore that your husband and you seek the help of a family counsellor in the effort to resolve your problems.

Pastor