Tell Me Pastor

Repentant cheater

DEAR PASTOR,

I am married to this girl for about a year now and we have had our ups and downs, but I have never cheated on her, until recently. I am ashamed of what I did. I have prayed to God for forgiveness and I am sure that I have been forgiven. Although I know God has forgiven me, I don't think I have forgiven myself. I love my wife dearly and I have vowed to never make this mistake again.

Pastor, give me some advice on what to do.

R.J., Kingston, Jamaica

Dear R. J.

You have recognised that what you did was wrong. Don't punish yourself any further. Put that behind you and move on with your life.

Pastor