DEAR PASTOR,
I am a very big fan of your column. I read it almost everyday. You give some real good advice.
This is in response to the letter entitled "Where are you, Mr Right?" Often times it is portrayed that guys are out to use girls, but in the real world it goes both ways. I live in the U.S. also, and let me tell you from a first-hand perspective - a lot of the girls here are very superficial. They go for guys that wear only name brand clothes, drive big flashy cars and have a lot of girls.
Pastor, these are the guys that want nobody because they think that they can get any girl they want. These are the same guys that give guys like me a bad name. I am not saying that what these guys are doing is right, but these girls should know that what you see is what you get; and the same goes for guys. As the old saying goes, "not everything that glitters is gold".
Keep up the good work and thanks for your time.
R.M., Pennsylvania
Dear R.M.,
You have made some good points. Thanks for your contribution. Take life easy.
Pastor