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I want my cheating boyfriend back

Dear Pastor,

I was with my boyfriend for one year and four months, and we broke up because he cheated on me. But I want him back. He's still with the girl that he cheated on me with. His sister knew about her and didn't tell me because she said that she didn't know how to tell me.

What should I do? I still love him and I need him back in my life. Without him I don't think I can survive. I don't believe I can love anyone else ever again.

S.G.

Dear S.G.,

Evidently you have decided to share this young man. You know that he is still having an intimate relation with this girl, so if you want him back and he does not agree to leave her, would you share him?

If you mean that by wanting him back you are going to beat up the girl, you may get yourself into big trouble.

And, he may turn around and beat you for interfering with his girl. Remember that both of you ended the relationship you were having.

My suggestion is that you leave this man alone. You will survive without him and with time you will fall in love again. However, do not be too quick in establishing another relationship.

Give your heart time to heal. If you don't, you may misplace infatuation for true love. And may find yourself going around and around in a similar situation.

Pastor