Dear Pastor,
I am an 18-year-old who recently migrated to Canada. My boyfriend of one year is somehow talking to me as if he is not interested in me any more. Every time I call him he speaks to me as though I don't deserve to be respected.
There are times when he is very nice and then other times he is like a total stranger. He said he loves me and doesn't want us to be apart but I don't believe him. I really care about this guy but I don't know if he cares about me.
What do you think I should do? He is not showing any interest now and I don't want to get hurt.
A. T., Etobicoke, Canada
Dear A.T.,
Perhaps your boyfriend is hurting too. He misses you and he doesn't even know how to handle it. You cannot be sure what will happen in a long distance relationship.
Some long distance relationships work and some don't.
You are young and if this relationship does not work, you will get over this man after a while. So don't allow his attitude to get you down. Continue to communicate with him and leave everything in God's hand.
Pastor
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