Tell Me Pastor

You cannot hurry love

Dear Pastor,

I am 18 and in love with this boy. He is one of my close friends. I have a feeling he likes me too.

I do not want to ask him because I think that the boy should ask the girl to become his intimate friend.

I am scared that it might ruin my friendship with him if I ask him.

Please could you help me? God bless

B.D., New Jersey,

U.S.A.

Dear B.D.,

If this fellow is in love with you he will eventually tell you. In the mean time enjoy his friendship. Do not be in a hurry for anything.

Couples that have had lasting relationships were friends first before they became lovers.

Pastor