Tell Me Pastor

Creepin' with his best friend

Dear Pastor,

I am a 25-year-old girl who is in love with a 22-year-old man. He loves his best friend and they have been seeing each other behind my back for a while now.

When I approached them about it, they told me that are just friends. Everyone has seen them everywhere together, and when I am around they don't speak to each other. What should I do?

T.D.,

Grand Cayman

Dear T.D.,

If you are sure that this man loves his best friend, why do you pursue him? On the other hand, what makes you so sure that they are intimately involved?

Perhaps he does not speak to her when you are present because he knows that you are very jealous, and you are going to talk to him about it. The truth is he may or may not be having a sexual relationship with this woman. If you have no proof that he is, don't nag him about it. Remember that time will tell.

If you are not comfortable with this man, then you should end the relationship.

Pastor