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My 'babyfather' is a scrub

Dear Pastor,

I am 19 years old with a two-year-old son and have been living with my son's father since our child was born. The house in which we live is in my name, and now I want him to leave.

He begs me for money and claims he is broke, but he sends money back to his home country. I really want him to go, so I can get my life together. The house we live in is in need of repairs and he expects me to do it alone. I need to get my life together and I feel I need to have my own space to do this.

S.K.,

London, England

Dear S.K.,

I suggest that you seek the help of a lawyer to get this man out of your house. Evidently, he is not helpful, and you have recognised that he is using you.

You need help and someone from the legal fraternity will be happy to help you. Stand up for your right, but don't do anything without legal advice.

Pastor