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Secret lovers

Dear Pastor,

I am currently in the United States, but I am a Jamaican. I have a girlfriend that I really care for but I am also married.We became close when we started studying together. We talked about different things then the feelings came in.

Is this a good thing or not? Should I continue to tell her how much I care even though we are both married? I think we became close for a specific reason.

Please tell me what to do.

S.A., Jacksonville, Florida

Dear S.A.,

I don't know what is the specific reason you are talking about, but I do know that it is very unwise for you to continue the friendship you have developed with this woman.You see where it is taking you. It may destroy your marriage. So, bring an end to this friendship.

Pastor