Tell Me Pastor

Old firestick ketch again

Dear Pastor,

I have been living with my child's father for six years. We had a few wonderful years together. This was until he took a visit to Jamaica. There he ran into an ex-girlfriend and gave her our telephone number. Once he returned home, she started to call and was very disrespectful. I had to put the girl in her place and also my child's father. I deserve respect.

I am not going to curse or play childlike games with someone over the phone because when someone is miserable, they seek company. Am I correct?

G.W., Miami, Florida

Dear G.W.,

What are you going to do? Is this relationship going anywhere? This so-called girlfriend is no more ex because the 'old firestick' has caught again. Do not be surprised if he returns to Jamaica and marries her.

Pastor