Tell Me Pastor

Jane bond

DEAR PASTOR,

I am a bisexual and I like my best friend. She has known me for a long time but we keep falling out because I keep writing that I love her on my schoolbooks and on my pencil case. I can't help loving her. However, we always end up falling out because of it and she freaks out because I love her so much. What should I do? Please help me.

K.C., New York

Dear K.C.,

By now you should come to realize that your friend is tolerating you but she is not interested in becoming your lover. You are fortunate that she has maintained a social relationship with you. But if you continue to play the fool, she is going to drop you as a friend. She knows that both of you are females and two females should not become sexually involved.

Evidently, you find it difficult to control yourself. Therefore, you should seek professional help. I suggest that you talk to a psychologist.

Pastor