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Beware sweet talker

Dear Pastor,

I am a 19-year-old female who has been living in the U.S. for sometime.

Recently, my cousin introduced me to one of her good friends. He is 30. I fell in love with him in about a minute. This is typical of me as I easily fall in love with someone at first sight. My cousin does not agree with us being together because she says he is a male whore who does not show respect for anyone. I really see that side of him, but I don't know why the heart doesn't do what the mind tells it to do. I would love to not love this man so much, but his charm keeps pulling me closer and closer to him. Should I agree with my cousin and leave this guy alone? May the good Lord continue to bless you.

S.A., Philadelphia

Dear S.A.,

You cannot say that you have not been warned. If you refuse to heed the warning, you may find yourself into a situation that would be difficult to get out. You are not the only one he is charming, but you like a sweet talker. You have been warned. Be wise.

Pastor.