Dear Pastor,
I have known this guy for four years. The first time we met he pulled up to me in a parking lot. He had a baby in the back seat. I asked him if that was his child and he said no. The baby called him daddy, but he denied that he is the father of the child. He said the child belonged to his brother.
The child looked exactly like him. I knew that was his son. But now he has finally admitted that the child is his. The child is now grown and I reminded him of the night when we met and he told me that the child was not his.
He also lied about with whom he lived. He also claimed he lived with his brother. I knew he was living with a woman. I left him for about a year or two but got back with him last year, but it seems like he is doing the same thing. I remember calling his number and leaving a message for him, and a woman called me back and asked if I called the number. She told me that he was at home with his wife and children. That was kind of shocking because he never told me was married. To this very day he still denies that she is his child's mother and that he is married. I know in myself not to trust him. I don't even know if I love him or love what he does for me. I need some advice.
What should I do?
D.B., Miramar, Florida
Dear D.B.,
I find it difficult to believe that you can't figure out what to do with this man. Why are you continuing to have an intimate relationship with this man? You know he is a liar and that you can't trust him. Give the man a walk. Do not call back his home. Please have some respect for his wife.
Pastor.
