Dear Pastor,
I am a young woman living with a 53-year-old man. Sometimes he sleeps out and doesn't get home until the morning.
My friends tell me that he has another girlfriend. Sometimes when I ask him about it, he laughs and says nothing. I am hurt over it. I love this man, but the way he is behaving I don't think he loves me. He says that he loves me, but it is really hard for me to believe him. It is a long story. I can't explain how I am feeling, so I am asking for your advice.
R.H., British Virgin Island
Dear R.H.,
Tell the man that his conduct is affecting you. Tell him that you find it difficult to deal with the relationship. Let him know that if he is interested in you, you should know where he is at nights. Tell him also that if he is interested in you, both of you should go for counselling.
If he is not interested in you, he should tell you so that you can move on with your life.
Pastor.
