DEAR PASTOR,
I have been dating this man since December 2003. He is away on business for three months. In the meantime I have had a girl called my house saying she is his girlfriend. But she has another man. She wanted confirmation from me. She said my boyfriend has been cheating on her. She also told me he is married. I called him and told him about the call I received from the girl. He denies being married, but said she is his ex-girlfriend and she is trying to start trouble. I must admit her story sounded shaky.
Called back
She claims they have been involved since November 2003. And its only now she is calling with this garbage. He has not called back and it has been a few weeks now. This girl has called my house three times with her craziness. Since he has not called me back, I don't know what to think. He will be home in two weeks time. I plan to talk with him if he will talk with me. I just can't understand why he never called back.
M.K.,
Dear M.K.,
Somebody is not speaking the truth. If this man is not having an intimate relationship with the woman who called you, why hasn't he been talking to you? How do you know this girl has another man? Did she say that to you? Anyway, he will soon be home. I hope at that time you will get to know the truth.
Pastor