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Babymother coming between us

Dear Pastor,

I am a 20-year-old woman who fell in love with a 23-year-old man from Portland, Jamaica. He has a son who is four years old. He has to keep in touch with his baby mother because of his son. But, pastor, I think there is something still going on between he and his baby mother. Whenever he calls his son, he cannot talk to him beside me. He has to go out of the room. I always ask to say hi to him, but he does not let me. When it is time for him to talk to his baby mother, he closes the door. It makes me so upset. I do not know what to do.

Can you help me?

T.D., London

Dear T.D.,

I believe you are quite correct. This man is not speaking the truth. His behaviour has given him away. He seems to be hiding something from you. Expect the worst from him. Do you know what I mean when I say expect the worst? I mean, that it is likely that one of these days he is going to return to Jamaica and get married to his child's mother. He would have taken you for a ride.

Pastor