Dear Pastor,
My boyfriend is not romantic at all. He leaves me at home on all weekends and never offers to take me out to show me off or just for us to have an enjoyable time together.
It appears to me that he does not appreciate me. On Valentine's Day he did not give me anything. He received a card from me.
Sometimes I feel that he does not love me, and that he is taking me for granted. Even our sex life is suffering because I do not feel loved. Should I leave him and find another? He is somewhat older than I, but he feels he is in his prime.
Please tell me what to do to make this man show me love.
S.L., London, England
Dear S.L,
Perhaps the mistake you have made is to be living with this man. He is taking you for granted. You see, it is time for you to level with this man and tell him that if he doesn't treat you better, you will leave him.
You should know that this man is a user and that you can't force him to love you. You are wasting your time with him.
Pastor.
