Dear Pastor,
I am a 15-year-old student who is having some problems.
I was raped on more than one occasion and attempts were made twice when I was younger. I keep having flashbacks. It was so horrible. Over the years I have tried to forget them, but they keep coming and haunting me in my dreams.
On the first occasion all I can remember is that I was lying on an old chair on the roof of his unfinished house and he grabbed my arms and held me down. He is three years older than I. He kissed me all over my body. He took off my clothes and raped me. I was so shocked, I could not speak. I have not told my parents. I have much more to say, but I need more time to get myself together.
I am also a Christian trying to live a holy life. It is killing me. What should I do?
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Dear...,
I regret hearing that you were raped and that it happened more than once. I am very, very sorry to hear that. I am also sorry that you did not report these guys who raped you to the police.
Report each case
Every rape should be reported. Rapists should be arrested, tried in court and sentenced to prison. And while imprisoned, they should receive professional help. These incidents may torment you for a long time until you receive therapy and learn how to deal with the past.
I believe you were scared to report these men. I understand. But, hear me, now. You need help. You really do. Therefore, I am urging you to seek counselling. I am glad you are trying to serve the Lord. That is very good, but you need therapy. I repeat, it would help you to deal with the past and of course teach you how to cope with the present.
Please call these numbers and ask for help. The numbers are 926-7318 or 926-4079. You may also talk to the minister of your church.
Pastor.
