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'Mad Michelle'

DEAR PASTOR,

I am a guy 21 years old and madly in love with this female that I have been dating for nearly four years. Everyone says that I should marry her but the thing is, I don't think that she has proven herself enough to me and I don't want to make a foolish mistake. This girl gets mad for everything and she is not one that I can sit with and relate to. I know that sounds silly, but that is just how it is.

I know she loves me but she acts as if she doesn't care when we have a disagreement. Usually I am the one to make things right and I really don't think that is how two people should live. She has a lot of pride and never admits when she is wrong.

The word sorry never comes from her mouth and I truly believe that one must admit when they are wrong. I love her and I would really love for her to just grow up and change her ways. Sometimes I feel like leaving but when I look back on all that we have shared it makes me just sit and cry.

Please give me some advice.

O.W.,

Texas

Dear O.W.,

I suggest that you and this lady make an appointment to see a family counsellor. Evidently, both of you love each other, but there are some matters that need to be resolved. I believe that both of you can benefit from counselling.

Pastor