Tell Me Pastor

I want my wife!

Dear Pastor,

I am now living in Florida and I am also married to a girl I knew from I was 12 years old and she was 9. She grew up to be a beautiful woman. We also have a beautiful daughter.

The things I look for in a woman it is all there. She has it all. My love for her is on the highest level. After we got married and I came back to Florida, I met a Haitian girl.

I really could not believe that two people from different places could be the same. After being here for a while, I fell in love with the Haitian.

I want my wife. At times I think I made a mistake by getting married, and then another time I think about my marriage. I think about my situation everyday and night. I really don't know what to do. And I know what I am doing is wrong.

You are the first person to know of the situation I am going through. Whatever you say about the situation will be very helpful, but I know it will not be easy.

D.S., Florida

Dear D.S.,

I must urge you to continue the relationship with the woman you marry. She has not done you any wrong. You said that she is a beautiful woman and your love for her is on a high level, why would you now break her heart? That would be a very wrong thing to do.

I know you got involved with this Haitian woman and you know you made a mistake. Try to resist her. Tell her about your wife. Tell her you are going to stay with your wife. She should understand your situation. Yes, I know he may not be easy and this Haitian woman may go all out to get you.

But do what is right. Try and get your wife to live with you as early as possible.

Pastor